Wednesday, October 9, 2013

A Hurtful Visitor!

       A home without visitors and guests seem to be dry rather deadly bringing boredom and tedium to the inmates. They will long for the visual of another visage helping to come out of the torpor of repeated activities day by day. Mostly guests and visitors fill the environs with delight by exposing some news about the common kith and kin.  But there are certain personal visitors who with no consent of yours, infringe into the essence of your self spoiling all the tranquil of the peace of mind. Let us draw the caricature of one of them.

When sleep holds you in cozy bed ,  you exceed the usual time of rouse. Lack of time turns things topsy-turvy. This visitor in a vehement manner catches hold of you, discolouring your dainty day. But who is this visitor? This visitor is a three-letter word named ‘IRE’ in other words  'ANGER'.

Why does this visitor make its presence in your proximity? There are copious reasons for that. One of them is the frustration born out of non-fulfillment of your undue desire. You will never see whether you possess the eligibility of yearning things such high. First deserve and then desire. Your acceptable ambition will no doubt see accomplishment, if adequate amount of effort is put in
Sometimes your mind gathers a sort of envy, when you see others at credible gains. The creator has designed some people fortunate enough to achieve all their aspirations .Then the jealousy of yours raises its head. The time is apt for your ire to conquer you.  You rejoice at the misfortune of theirs even at the cost of your pleasure leading to sadism. Hard luck and hardship in no way emits the rays of euphoria, may it be ours or others’. If you collect cheers from the triumph of other people, exultation will automatically come close to you also. Then why should you envy others?

Another root of this visitor’s entry is the dearth of revenue. If you run short of money for the procurement of your essential goods, you fall victim into the clasp of this visitor. You will feel like obliterating anything and everything that comes on your way. An oddity from you will come into view of others. The outcome is nothing other than loss! Loss!  Don’t entertain this visitor’s propinquity, you impel or propel it to some other direction.

Yet again another set of dangerous three letter s‘ Ego’, that symbolizes the expression of people and youths in particular today, forms the basis of this visitor’s close relation with you. Ego as an accomplice always follows you in all your words and deeds. If you have erred somewhere, rage climbs to you and you receive it readily. Instead of accepting your mistake, you upload the blame on some others. Therefore before  ire due to ego breaks your relations with others, better you be aware of its presence and make sure that you shake it off.

The next factor for the visitor’s spree is the ‘intolerance’ towards the other religions. You think that your religion is  paramount  and dominant over every other belief. But the fact is all the religions hold to their chests superstitious beliefs, unbelievable miracles and unnatural events along with all the essential values and ways for a fruitful life. Why to have such a superior belief when all the bodies perform the same way of metabolism and house the same type of body constitution and components.  Believing only in your religion, respect other religions or endure at least.

Skepticism about other religion and fanaticism about your own religion provide water and manure for the growth of terrorism and extremism. Vengeance turns huffish and avenge the followers of other beliefs for no deliberate fault of theirs. People succumb to the huff and its byproducts like militancy, massacre, bloodshed, assault, strife, conflict, clash and even looting etc are the upshots.

All the plans, legitimate and illegitimate,can take their births only in one brain. Very soon they multiply and encroach upon other brains also.  The atrocities are the brainchild of only one person proliferating in others.
Many more reasons such as obstinacy of the children, noisy atmosphere, incomplete work,  work pressure, dissatisfaction in self and others’ activities, tiresome journey, thirst, hunger, unpleasant situation, inability to react and the like download rage from your mind to your actions. Such things paint ire colour on your countenance. The muscles contract, eyes diminish the size, teeth bite each other and as a whole the physique gets heated up.

One cannot predict the consequences of your wild wrath which may send the opponents to even ‘Yama’s World’. For instance ‘A software engineer in Bangalore stabbed his wife, another software engineer to death. The former clasped fatality by leaping from the fifth story of his high-rise. His lone naive female progeny was thrown into an orphan stage’.  This was the result of recurring internal bickering between the couple. A current media news reported thus about a family with internal strife, a lot.

Fury fills your body with toxins that become susceptible to the visit of sugar, pressure, ulser and even cancer. Without your knowledge your fall prey in their grip.This harmful, hurtful foe, deteriorates the health, destroys the calm, tarnishes the image, breaks the relations and gains you nothing but defeat. Antagonism, antonymous with tolerance will fill in you unease and anxiety in place of peace of mind. If patience and endurance are in friendship with you, rage won’t even peep there. Let be lenience the watchword of the day and let be damages and dangers miles and miles away. Let you not get dipped in the ditches of fury and rage. Ascertain your strength and weakness and seek the panacea, humanity against all ailments.

 ‘An angry man opens his mouth and shuts his eyes’.  By Cato. 



  1. deep one and very thoughtful

  2. You have spelt out a few unwanted visitors.There are countless more uninvited visitors out to spoil our day and peace.With some effort,one can keep them at bay

  3. Anger is completely healthy and normal human emotion. But we should not let it go out of control. We should control anger before it controls us.

    1. Yes,it should come under our control.It turns us beastly.Thank you,SG.

  4. The accused ( visitors) are in fact not visitors, but intruders who we have ignored much that they entrenched in our beings.
    It has to be mind over matter to get these intruders booted out.

    1. When a visitor is hurtful,he turns to be an intruder.Thank you,Anil.