A home without visitors and guests seem to be dry rather
deadly bringing boredom and tedium to the inmates. They will long for the visual
of another visage helping to come out of the torpor of repeated activities day
by day. Mostly guests and visitors fill the environs with delight by exposing
some news about the common kith and kin.
But there are certain personal visitors who with no consent of yours, infringe
into the essence of your self spoiling all the tranquil of the peace of mind.
Let us draw the caricature of one of them.
When sleep holds you in cozy bed , you exceed the usual time of rouse. Lack of
time turns things topsy-turvy. This visitor in a vehement manner catches hold
of you, discolouring your dainty day. But who is this visitor? This visitor is
a three-letter word named ‘IRE’ in other words 'ANGER'.
Why does this visitor make its presence in your proximity?
There are copious reasons for that. One of them is the frustration born out of
non-fulfillment of your undue desire. You will never see whether you possess
the eligibility of yearning things such high. First deserve and then desire.
Your acceptable ambition will no doubt see accomplishment, if adequate amount
of effort is put in
.
Sometimes your mind gathers a sort of envy, when you see
others at credible gains. The creator has designed some people fortunate enough
to achieve all their aspirations .Then the jealousy of yours raises its head. The
time is apt for your ire to conquer you.
You rejoice at the misfortune of theirs even at the cost of your
pleasure leading to sadism. Hard luck and hardship in no way emits the rays of euphoria,
may it be ours or others’. If you collect cheers from the triumph of other
people, exultation will automatically come close to you also. Then why should you
envy others?
Another root of this visitor’s entry is the dearth of
revenue. If you run short of money for the procurement of your essential goods,
you fall victim into the clasp of this visitor. You will feel like obliterating
anything and everything that comes on your way. An oddity from you will come
into view of others. The outcome is nothing other than loss! Loss! Don’t entertain this visitor’s propinquity, you
impel or propel it to some other direction.
Yet again another set of dangerous three letter s‘ Ego’, that
symbolizes the expression of people and youths in particular today, forms the
basis of this visitor’s close relation with you. Ego as an accomplice always follows
you in all your words and deeds. If you have erred somewhere, rage climbs to
you and you receive it readily. Instead of accepting your mistake, you upload
the blame on some others. Therefore before ire due to ego breaks your relations with
others, better you be aware of its presence and make sure that you shake it off.
The next factor for the visitor’s spree is the ‘intolerance’
towards the other religions. You think that your religion is paramount
and dominant over every other belief. But the fact is all the religions
hold to their chests superstitious beliefs, unbelievable miracles and unnatural
events along with all the essential values and ways for a fruitful life. Why to
have such a superior belief when all
the bodies perform the same way of metabolism and house the same type of body constitution
and components. Believing only in your
religion, respect other religions or endure at least.
Skepticism about other religion and fanaticism about your
own religion provide water and manure for the growth of terrorism and extremism.
Vengeance turns huffish and avenge the followers of other beliefs for no
deliberate fault of theirs. People succumb to the huff and its byproducts like militancy,
massacre, bloodshed, assault, strife, conflict, clash and even looting etc are
the upshots.
All the plans, legitimate and illegitimate,can take their births
only in one brain. Very soon they multiply and encroach upon other brains also.
The atrocities are the brainchild of
only one person proliferating in others.
Many more reasons such as obstinacy of the children, noisy
atmosphere, incomplete work, work
pressure, dissatisfaction in self and others’ activities, tiresome journey,
thirst, hunger, unpleasant situation, inability to react and the like download
rage from your mind to your actions. Such things paint ire colour on your
countenance. The muscles contract, eyes diminish the size, teeth bite each other
and as a whole the physique gets heated up.
One cannot predict the consequences of your wild wrath which
may send the opponents to even ‘Yama’s World’. For instance ‘A software
engineer in Bangalore stabbed his wife, another software engineer to death. The
former clasped fatality by leaping from the fifth story of his high-rise. His
lone naive female progeny was thrown into an orphan stage’. This was the result of recurring internal
bickering between the couple. A current media news reported thus about a family
with internal strife, a lot.
Fury fills your body with toxins that become susceptible to
the visit of sugar, pressure, ulser and even cancer. Without your knowledge
your fall prey in their grip.This harmful, hurtful foe, deteriorates the health, destroys
the calm, tarnishes the image, breaks the relations and gains you nothing but
defeat. Antagonism, antonymous with tolerance will fill in you unease and
anxiety in place of peace of mind. If patience and endurance are in friendship
with you, rage won’t even peep there. Let be lenience the watchword of the day
and let be damages and dangers miles and miles away. Let you not get dipped in
the ditches of fury and rage. Ascertain your strength and weakness and seek the
panacea, humanity against all ailments.
‘An angry man opens
his mouth and shuts his eyes’. By Cato.
Sarala.
