I wish everyone loved ..........................................

 In response to Preeti Shenoy's prompt..... I wish everyone loved our own life.To facilitate this we should love each other, all others and all other things.

Of course we may find it difficult because many a time others' drawbacks only  first fall into our eyes, despite the shortcoming of ourselves. 

But if we succeed in overlooking others' demerits in the bright light of their merits, definitely we can love them.And also let's have a comparison of defects,ours with theirs, on an honest analysis, we can find that our both the legs are infected and theirs only one leg.

Besides if we can love  the nature and its resources, the horrible human devastation of nature will come to a dearth.If we keep every thing in tact in the ring of love, the heaven will be here on this planet itself.

All these are feasible only if everyone loved  everyone's life.

Answer the following questions about yourself:

1. If you had Rs.50,000 to just blow up (you have to spend it on YOURSELF. Giving to Charity or buying gifts for others is not allowed), what would you spend it on and why?
   Visit places of my interest.

2. Name three of your closest friends (not family or spouse) and say why you love them.

Free time, Reading Materials and Children because they can enchant me above all other friends.

3. Name three books which have profoundly affected you and which you would recommend to everyone to read.

Usually, I read magazines and newspapers only. At times I read some novels in Malayalam.


4. If you know for certain that you can never ever fail, what would you attempt to do?


 Try to bridge porous relationships through counselling in my own way.


5. What is THE ONE THING that you want very very badly?


More free time for this kind of creativity within my limit is the one thing... 

Teaching is a Refreshing Tea.

Teaching  profession should aim at determination, dedication,devotion and discipline leading  to moulding the future of children and thus that of the country, according to me and so am I a teacher.
Eagerness, wherever and whenever a teacher feels,he/she should try the maximum to satisfy the person concerned.
Advice when required, should be poured by  a teacher.

Care is another quality of a teacher and every teacher should  take care of the taught.
Activity- promotion from the teacher's side ends in effective teaching.
.Kindling the spark already in children will produce a wide flame of enthusiasm and regular monitoring with complimentary words create a zeal in children's minds.
Energizing the situation through informal chit- chat etc.turns the atmosphere conducive for learning and all these contribute to 'Tea and Cake' to refresh the young minds as 'teacher' has 'tea' with her.  

Stain in Relationship when Strained!

‘Can relationship be like a tea- stain? Why or why not?’

Preeti Shenoy

  Strained Relationship, a Discolor!

Of course, relationship sometimes turns to be a stain or like a tea- stain, when it gets strained. As ‘Every cloud has a silver lining’ every shining thing has a shady area. Relationships are refreshing the mind, energizing the body and entertaining the participants. Relationships vary from place to place and person to person.

Some people attribute much value and worth to their relationships and they keep them like diamonds very dear in value. Some others take them as time- pass games leaving no marks of attachment  in their judgment. Relationships may be of various kinds as deep, shallow, intimate ,superficial , sincere, name-sake and the like. Sole dependence on one another for everything may bring much frequency in association. And this in turn may spoil the sweetness ,as ‘Too much is always too bad’. Eventually in this condition of the relationship one may bolt out the other, creating a blot in his character. Here the relationship becomes strained and imprints between them a stain like tea- stain, which, if needed, with immediate cleaning( arriving at a compromise) can be cleared off. 

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No solution if No Problem

Preeti Shenoy is a well known blogger and an author of a few books.The prompt for today is a quote  by Bernard-Paul Heroux.

'There is no trouble so great or grave that cannot be much diminished by a nice cup of tea.'  ~Bernard-Paul Heroux

Sitting around a table or in a grasslawn in the pretext of a cup of tea solves the problems if any, half way. While sipping the tea offered by  one party or ordered by the other ,naturally  a conversation takes place. This conversation may pass through discussion,clarification,apology,repentance ,sharing etc.Such things pour out the real cause of the problems which itself finds a solution.And this solution dissolves or diminishes the problem however grave it may be, for many problems crop up due to not understanding fully   or misunderstanding the situation of its occurrence.

People may ask
'Why to create  a problem,
 Solution ,problem only brings.
Life moves on problems and solutions
Let there be so problems and solutions.'